Showing posts with label Mark. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Mark. Show all posts

Thursday, December 17, 2009

Those Long Hallways

It was a year ago last week that Mark got into his accident. The day was Friday, December 12th. I had been Christmas shopping and preparing for our annual Christmas party we were to have that evening. I forgot my cellphone. So many frantic messages from Troy greeted me when I got home. I called him right away. It didn't look good, he said, and I needed to come right away. I immediately canceled any plans that we had for the rest of the day and headed to the hospital. It was a long, tear-filled journey. My heart sank to the pit of my stomach. All I could think of was Angie and Nolan. What it would mean if we lost Mark...if they lost Mark. I continuously prayed for them as I drove toward the hospital and away from the setting sun. For Mark, his earthly journey ended just beyond those long hallways at Mission Hospital. For Angie and Nolan, their journey of life without Mark began just beyond those hallways. I know that life without Mark may seem very much like those long, seemingly never-ending hallways at Mission. This time of year is extremely hard for everyone who experienced loss with Mark, but especially Angie and Nolan. Please keep them in your prayers this holiday season. Please pray for comfort through this seemingly never-ending grief that they are experiencing. If you haven't visited it lately, Angie writes of how she is dealing with life this time of year at PrayfortheLamberths.com. Some other dates to keep Angie in your prayers are December 19th, which is what would have been their 11th wedding anniversary, and January 8th, the first anniversary of Mark's death. While you are lifting Angie and Nolan up in prayer, please keep it in mind to pray for the comfort of Mark's parents, Jimmy and Barb, and siblings, Matt, Amanda, and Amy. The Lamberth family has been through quite at bit this past year, but God has blessed them with enough strength and perseverance to get through it. I thank God for those daily blessings.

"Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted."
-Matthew 5:4

Thursday, February 19, 2009

Its about time...

...to give you all an update! Of course I am speaking of an update (mostly) about Jackson. He is now 15 months old! He is no longer a baby! He is a little boy! (Boy---is he ever!) It seems Jackson's vocabulary grows by at least 5 words a week. It is pretty amazing. This boy is like a sponge. He sucks up everything! His favorite words lately are "house," "Noah," "Nolan," "teeth," "bath," "duck," "meow," and of course, "Mama," and "Dada." That is just to name a few. He is on his way to being a very good communicator. I wonder where he got that from?

Some of his favorite things to do right now are brushing his teeth, watching "Mo" (Elmo) on TV, reading books, especially books with Elmo, Big Bird, and Abby in them, singing the "Rubber Duck" song from Sesame Street, doing the "Itsy-Bitsy Spider," and cuddling on the couch with a blanket, a good book, and his mommy and daddy. Here are some photos with more about what Jackson (and Troy and I) have been up to lately...
Jackson cuddling on the couch with "Mo" and a good book. It turns out that his buddy "Mo" is a good reading partner!One of Jackson's favorite things to do is "drive." He loves to get in the driver's seat and move the steering wheel. Don't worry, though...he doesn't do this without very close supervision, and without the car on, I might add. It is really cute, though...when we get in the car he says, "keys...drive!"One of Jackson's favorite toys is a ball-popper thing. It has a fan in it that makes the balls pop out of it into the air. It is pretty cool, actually! (Thanks, Di!)
One of Jackson's favorite places to sit now is the bear chair. My grandpa made each of us kids one when we were little, and now Jackson is using mine. That means a lot to me!
Jackson is very, very fond of Nolan. He will wake up saying his name over and over again. He will randomly ask for him. It is really cute, and I think Nolan is very honored that his cousin likes him so much. Troy mentioned to Nolan a few weeks ago that Jackson really liked his toys, and Nolan replied, "It's probablly because I'm his favorite cousin." I am pretty certain he takes pride in that. Speaking of Nolan, please remember to continue to pray for him and Angie, as they are still going through such an immense transition to life without Mark. They need to be lifted up in prayer daily. For updates on how their lives are going, visit www.prayforthelamberths.com.
Jackson loves Cassie, and Cassie is like his nanny. She gets worried if he cries, but, sometimes will keep a safe distance. She lets Jackson pet her, though. She is a good kitty to have around little ones! Instead of cat (pronounced "at"), Jackson is now calling Cassie "Meow" because he knows we think it is cute.
This is random amoungst all the Jackson stuff, but Troy and I FINALLY got to go out on a date after months of going without one. Under the circumstances of the last several months, we never got to go out together. At the end of January, we had the oppurtunity to go out to for dinner at PF Changs and a movie. We went to see Mall Cop, which was a clean, and silly comedy. That was just what we needed to see.
Due to the circumstances of December, our annual Citrus Group Christmas Party was postponed until the end of January. We all had a great time, and I was amazed that Kimm kept her Christmas decor up all through January just for the occasion! At the end of the night, Jackson took it upon himself to snag a whole wall of the ginger bread house. Don't worry folks...after a few bites, I threw it away!
This is just a cute picture of Jackson taken at Polly's Pies. I had to include it somehow.This is the first sonogram of our little baby # 2. The two "x's" mark the crown and the rump. The baby's heartbeat was happy and healthy! This was taken two weeks ago at 8 weeks.

Jackson has become a fan of dips and sauces. Int his photo, he had just discovered ketchup. He loves Cholula, a mexican hotsauce, on his eggs. I tasted the stuff and it is spicy! But, he loves it and begs for more! When Jackson is dipping his food in something, he loves to say "dip" over and over again.This little boy has recently discovered his old car seat. We have it sitting on the office floor due to lack of storage space. He will climb in it every chance he gets, while giving us a silly grin!
Jackson has the most beautiful eyes (at least I think so!). I had to put this picture up to show them off. Also, his hair is getting thicker and blonder as it grows, and, as a result, he gets pretty crazy hair after a nap (as shown above!).

This first photo is from 6 1/2 weeks along in my pregnancy, and the second was taken today, at 10 weeks. I think I started to show overnight (and, no, I am not sticking out my stomach...I am actually holding it in...) I thought it was just me, but when I walked into the MOPS meeting today, my table leader/friend said "oh wow...you are showing!" I suppose this picture is proof. I am glad to say I still have only gained 3 lbs, and 1.5 of those pounds was just in the last week and a half.

So, there is a pretty long update! I am sorry I haven't been posting blogs as often. Quite frankly, sometimes I would rather be sleeping! :)

Tuesday, January 13, 2009

Cousins!

Cousins: Luke, Jackson, and Nolan make silly faces in a mirror at Chick-fil-a.

In the last month, Jackson has had the opportunity to hang out with his cousins quite a bit. He now will try to be one of the "big boys" when they are around! He can't contain his excitement when he sees his cousin Nolan. Nolan gets pretty excited as well. It really is hilarious. Just recently, Troy and I realized that Jackson and Nolan are the same age difference as Troy and Mark were. I hope they can be friends, too! I suppose they have a good start!

At the Cross

On Saturday morning, our whole family and many, many others trekked up to the cross on Mt. Rubidoux in memory of Mark. It was a good time of remembrance, prayer, and worship...we sang "Blessed be the Name of the Lord," and "How Great is Our God," which were very appropriate songs.
Making the hike up to the cross.
People gather at the cross to remember Mark.Troy shares some words about his cousin's testimony.

Friday, January 9, 2009

Let it be said of us....

As of about 5:30 last night, Mark went to be with the Lord, as his family and close friends stood around him. It is never easy to watch someone pass away before your very eyes. However, the fact that Mark knew Christ as his Lord and Savior put a bit of sweetness into the bitterness of sorrow that we feel. We know that he is with his Lord, and he is rejoicing in His presence. But, still, there is the grieving...grieving for Angie's loss of a husband, for Nolan's loss of his daddy, for Jim and Barb's loss of a son, for Matt, Mandy, and Amy's loss of a brother, for our loss of a cousin and a friend....the list of Mark's roles here on this earth go on and on. I know that God has a plan, and for whatever reason, He called Mark home to be with Him. I cling to that. I know Angie is clinging to that. I pray that others will cling to that. The huge amount of prayer that the family received from Christians all around the world was astonishing. Christ was definitely glorified through this all. Mark would have been thrilled about that. I thank the Lord for the Godly example Mark was. I only pray that my testimony here on this earth would reflect the same qualities. I pray that the presence of Christ would be evident in my life as it was in Mark's. There is a song that I posted in a comment on Mark's blog and that I will post here because the lyrics are what I desire of my life and what Mark showed in his.

"Let It Be Said of Us

Let it be said of us that the Lord was our passion,
That with gladness we bore ev’ry cross we were given,
That we fought the good fight, that we finished the course,
Knowing within us the pow’r of the risen Lord.

Let the cross be our glory
And the Lord be our song,
By mercy made holy,
By the Spirit made strong
Let the cross be our glory
And the Lord be our song,
‘Til the likeness of Jesus
Be through us made known.
Let the cross be our glory
And the Lord be our song.

Let it be said of us: We were marked by forgiveness,
We were known by our love and delighted in meekness,
We were ruled by His peace, heeding unity’s call,
Joined as one body that Christ would be seen by all.

Let the cross be our glory
And the Lord be our song,
By mercy made holy, by the Spirit made strong
Let the cross be our glory
And the Lord be our song,
‘Til the likeness of Jesus
Be through us made known.
Let the cross be our glory
And the Lord be our song."

I feel immense sorrow right now for the loss of Mark. But, I am so very thankful for the sweetness there is in the hope of Christ, and through this all, that still remains. Through this tragic event (humanly speaking), our great God is still on the throne. Christ still died for sinners. He still rose from the tomb. He still is in glory with God the Father. Mark is now with Christ experiencing that glory that is beyond our earthly comprehension. Those truths still remain true. Praise God for that!

Wednesday, January 7, 2009

PLEASE PRAY

We woke up to a call with some very horrible news this morning. The bleed in Mark's brain has increased in size and the doctor said it was catastrophic. Angie will be having to make the decision to take him off the ventilator. Please pray for comfort for Angie and Nolan at this time, and visit the blog http://www.prayforthelamberths.com for more details and updates. Thanks for all you prayers.

Tuesday, January 6, 2009

A Setback for Mark

Mark didn't go into surgery as planned today. The doctor discovered in the CAT Scan that he has rebleed (a place that was injured before is bleeding again). PLEASE keep praying for Mark, Angie, and Nolan. I don't know what God has in store for Mark, but it is comforting to know that God knows. Please pray for comfort for Angie. There has been so many ups and downs! http://www.prayforthelamberths.com

Great News!

I am sure that most of you read that Mark moved his hands yesterday in response to pain!!!! We are so excited and encouraged. The Lord has been so merciful! You can read more about it at http://www.prayforthelamberths.com

Monday, December 29, 2008

URGENT PRAYER REQUEST FOR MARK

Please pray for Mark...he was taken into emergency surgery this morning because the pressure in his brain is going up. Please pray and spread the news to pray...thanks!

Sunday, December 21, 2008

Hang in there....

So, for all of you who read my blog, and are missing having pictures of Jackson up here, please hang in there! I hope to have time for a good post before Christmas! Thanks for your patience! So, until then, here is a picture of Jackson (I hope I didn't post this one already!) ...And, please keep praying for Mark! His pneumonia isn't clearing, and until that happens, they can take him off the paralytics or sedation he is under, which means they can't test for any brain activity. The nurse said tonight that it is going to "be a while" before we will see anything. Sigh...

Sunday, December 14, 2008

Keep on Praying!

(Photo by Scott Montgomery)

Mark has been transferred to Mission Hospital in Mission Viejo. He had a Craniectomy (the right side of this skull was removed) today and it went well. We are still praying for a miracle. For more of an update, please visit www.prayforthelamberths.com ....the site name changed to make it easier to access. Thank you again for all your prayers!